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Aria da Capo & What Makes a Man Powerful?

With a consideration of the play in verse, Aria da Capo by Edna St. Vincent Millay. First presented at the Aesthetic Realism Foundation, NYC.

May 6, 2015 By Bennett Cooperman

Through my study of Aesthetic Realism I’ve seen that we have two different ways of trying to be powerful. In his book Self and World, Eli Siegel writes: “Aesthetic Realism sees the largest purpose of every human being as the liking of the world on an honest basis.” This purpose, I learned, represents our true […]

Filed Under: Actors & the Drama, Bennett Cooperman

Al Jolson: True Pride and How We Can We Have It

First presented in a public seminar at the Aesthetic Realism Foundation, New York City.

May 6, 2015 By Bennett Cooperman

Aesthetic Realism explains our subject tonight, “True Pride & How We Can Have It,” definitively and in a way that is immediately useful to people. I learned we’ll be proud if we’re going after what Eli Siegel has described as man’s deepest purpose, to like the world honestly. In his book, Self and World, Mr. […]

Filed Under: Actors & the Drama, Bennett Cooperman

Jimmy Cagney — or Does the Way We Fight Make Us Strong or Weak?

Discussing the life and work of the tough and tender Jimmy Cagney. First presented at the Aesthetic Realism Foundation, NYC.

May 6, 2015 By Bennett Cooperman

Jimmy Cagney

Aesthetic Realism explains that every fight we have is based on either respect or contempt for the world. For example, when people fought the Nazis in World War II, they were fighting in behalf of respect—for justice. But most fights are based on the desire to have contempt, to be superior, and this desire causes […]

Filed Under: Actors & the Drama, Bennett Cooperman

Edmund Kean – How Can a Man Have Real Self Expression?

Edmun Kean’s acting and his life can help us answer that question. First presented at the Aesthetic Realism Foundation, NYC.

May 6, 2015 By Bennett Cooperman

I learned from Aesthetic Realism that a man will feel truly expressed when he’s consciously going after his deepest desire, which is there from birth: honestly to like the world, to see meaning in what is not himself, and this very much includes other people. The thing that stifles true expression in us is also […]

Filed Under: Actors & the Drama, Bennett Cooperman

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Welcome!

Bennett Cooperman and Meryl Nietsch-Cooperman

We’re proud as husband and wife of 28 years to study and teach Aesthetic Realism, founded in 1941 by Eli Siegel, the American poet and philosopher.

Here you’ll find information about the ways this education has changed our lives—as to love and marriage, the understanding of eating disorders, the art of acting, and the everyday questions of men and women.

Update

I’m very proud to have written the Aesthetic Realism Foundation’s 2024 fundraising letter. In it, I tell some of the great good effect of this education on my life, including as to love, acting, the hope to have big feelings and what opposes that. You can read the letter here.

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